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Some, like in my past relationship, where they are constantly in the dog house, and "sorry" becomes their first language. I don't think you need anything else to sum up the problem here; layd women simply don't want guys that love.

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I think this is the type of man you're referring to as the "not-nice" guy. And I've certainly dated men who wanted me and were sweet to me and with whom I didn't feel a real connection.

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I also know several men who make no bones about wanting a harem of sex partners but who don't want to commit, who have women crawling all over. I like a man who embodies both niceness AND badness.

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